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When u think of u'r past love,u may view it as a failure. However,when find a new love,u may view d' past as a teacher. In d' game of love,it does not really matter who won or who lost. What is important is u know when to hold on and when to let it go! you know you really love someone when you want him/her to be happy. Even if his happiness means that you are not part of it. Everything happens for d' best.If d' person you love does not love you back,do not beafraid to love someone else again,for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You will never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Love strives in hurting.If you do not get hurt,you do not learn how to love.Love does not hurt all d' time.However,d' hurting is still there to test you,to help you grow. Do not find love.let love find you.That is why it is called falling in love b-coz you do not force u'rself to fall.You cannot finish a book w/o closing it's chapters. If you want to...

The most destructive habit ............................  Worry The greatest Joy ............................  Giving The greatest loss ............................  Loss of self-respect The most satisfying work ............................  Helping others   The ugliest personality trait ............................  Selfishness The most endangered species ............................  Dedicated leaders . Our greatest natural resource ............................  Our youth   The greatest "shot in the arm" ............................  Encouragement   The greatest problem to overcome ............................  Fear   The most effective sleeping pill ............................  Peace of mind   The most crippling failure disease ............................  Excuses   The most powerful force in life ............................  Love   The most dangerous pariah ...............................

in your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with...and the one that got away. Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose. I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance. How often have you gone through it without even r...

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it ...

Im not gonna hold too long to whatever is not meant, sometimes i need to set things free before it totally kills me.. Sometimes i think that heart was made to be broken but I still completely believe in love, and im open to anything that will happen–no regrets.. People like me suffering from heartaches or from a heartbreak avoid places and people that would bring up nostalgic memories. Theres nothing wrong feeling nostalgic, its normal. However, bringing back the past events wouldnt help, infact what we have to learn is the first step of letting go of someone tied deeply into our heart. We must first believe that a heartbreak is just a temporary problem, and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. But that would be the biggest stupidest thing you would ever do, what we dont know at this point of time is we can still move on and be happy with our lives. For the people who still holds on to their relationship because they are so tired of walking away, who feels ...

just when i thought everything was going fine– i stood still, not knowing where to go. Suddenly, I felt the pain I wish I never felt. I’m constantly bleeding, so now I ask. Will there be such magic that can kill the pain, when you’re totally broken?  I wish pain killers will do, a single shot of anesthesia (make it multiple shots) or something else that can kill the pain. People around let me feel that I’m stuck. Trap into a horrible cage I just cant let myself move on. My heart is still holding on, longing for the same person who loved me. Now that were gone I don’t know if I could still carry on. I miss you, and you know that I really do. What am I suppose to do so I can let you go? When will this pain ever end? Rivers of tears keep flowing down my cheeks, But I’m still holding on to something i want the most. How will i start living my life without you? Each time i wake up all i think is you. You think I’m strong but inside I’m weak, my heart is crying out so loud i wis...

This is life. People will screw you over. You’ll fight with your family. You’ll witness things that will change you forever. You’ll blame new lovers for things old lovers did. You’ll lose best friends you thought would always be there. You’ll come to realize that everyone has a past. You’ll cry, you’ll laugh, and you’ll embarrass yourself. But then, you’ll find your very own moment where none of that matters; where you can sit back and realize that shit happens to the people who can handle it & that this is who you are, and no one should want to change you, including yourself. The more I look around and listen, I realize that I'm not alone. We are all facing choices that define us. No choice, however messy, is without importance in the overall picture of our lives. We all at our own age have to claim something, even if it's only our own confusion. I am in the middle of growing up and into myself. There have been a lot of ups & downs, but ultima...

As we grow older, there's an inevitable transition we all have to make—a shift from fairy-tale expectations of love to a grounded, enduring kind of love that can weather the harshest seasons. When we're young, love can feel like it should always be effortless, a constant rush of romance and perfect harmony. But with time, we come to understand that love isn’t just about the highs; it’s also about surviving the lows. A love that has been tested and challenged is far more inspiring than one that has only known bliss. Real love is forged through trials and strengthened by every obstacle overcome together. The key isn’t to search for a partner with whom you have no problems but to find someone with whom you’re good at solving them. It’s in facing difficulties that we learn the true measure of a relationship—the resilience, patience, and respect that hold you together, even when it’s hard. This kind of love, imperfect and tested, is the one that lasts, because it’s built on a founda...

ive been trying to get myself together these days, ive been treating my heart so careful. i noticed i always chase the wrong person.. right just about now, i dont want  anyone to understand. its just that, im confused right now, to be honest ..... deeeep inside i have this feeling that only me knows about what it is. i dont feel like loving someone right now.. infact i dont wanna be anyone's anything right now.. ---harley..