harlii.ol.day

So many thoughts, I don’t know where to begin, I’ll start from my heart, and what I feel within. I still have feelings, which haven’t changed, because when you left me my life was re-arranged. I used to cry so many times a day, but lately those tears have been fading away. I am hoping that my brighter day soon will come, and maybe, just maybe, I’ll find that special someone. Yes, it’s been hard, but I’m getting back my life, I’ve even managed to put away the knife. I will find someone who’s right for me, who loves me and lets me be all I can be. Yet the thought of you and her, is tearing me apart, because you will always have a special place in my broken heart. Do I still love you? Yes, I do, but another part of me is getting over you. I never thought I would say this, but I simply have to confess, with each and every day that goes by, I love you less and less. I just wanted to be wit...

So that’s the way it is. You can just go find someone else and let me go Like you don’t know owe me a thing But I can handle this, I’ve been through it all before And you get yours and im gonna bounce back again You can tell someone, that you’ll be there And then walk away, like you don’t care I’m not saying this cause im mad I just want you to understand, One day, its gonna catch up with you What goes around comes around Baby I thought you knew Do somebody wrong for too long, its gonna get done to you And you did me bad and got away Play me like a fool Thought you knew, 360 is coming right back to you You must be sitting on top of the world Feeling like you’re finally free and you will see that it won’t be too long Taking what you deserve, then you’re the one that somebody leaves Then you’ll think of me and wish you never did me wrong baby You can tell someone, that you’ll be there And then walk away, like you don’t care You might decide you want me back but it’ll be too late for that...

When you travel though life there are always those times when decisions just have to be made And the choices are hard and solutions are scarce and the rain seems to soak your parade! There are some situations where all you can do is simply let go and move on Gather courage together and choose a direction that carries you toward a new dawn. So pack up your troubles and take a step forward the process of change can be tough But think about all the excitement ahead if you can be stalwart enough! There could be adventures you never imagined just waiting around the next bend And wishes and dreams just about to come true in ways you can’t yet comprehend! Perhaps you’ll find friendships that spring from new interests as you challenge your status quo And learn there are so many options in life and so many ways you can grow! Perhaps you’ll go places you never expected and see things that you’ve never seen Or travel to fabulous faraway worlds and wonderful spots in between! Perhaps...

Accept the Reality : When we are in love with someone it feels like he/she is the only person that will make us happy. What we fail to realize is that we can never be happy with the person who will not love us. So even though you might be ready to commit for life, the person you are in love with does not share the same feelings. So instead of sitting around moping away, accept that the love is not mutual and try to move on in life. Do not invest any more time or thought or energy in this person. Acceptance and realization of these facts will allow you to change your focus and take the first steps towards moving on. Move on : As easy as it may sound, a relationship breakup is probably the most difficult part. Cry your heart out and then start by throwing away any of the photos and mementos that may remind you of the happy times that you spent together. Stay away from places and things that might remind you of him/her. Instead do things that will keep you busy such as spending time with ...

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman. He was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.' She began to expand, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what you can do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.  I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I ...

I use to wake up in the morning and I'd hear your name Had you picture in my mind I didn't need a frame Wrote you letters that I couldn't see you eye to eye Hope the letters could express the way I felt inside Sometimes, the ones that you love Do not feel the same way that you do and it hurts you bad Sometimes your heart'll get weak But you can never give up on love I'll never give up on love Cause I know it's true, I know its real because I know the way I felt for you And In the middle of the night When I hear your name, I say a prayer for you And hope that you will do the same I'll never give up on love Cause that God aserned To find love when he made a prayer we both deserve And he's the father that we'll never see on earth So I'll never give up on love Things are different now without you always on my mind Definitely better, but I must admit it hurts sometimes What we had meant so much to me, jus to let you know, But what's done is done ...

Yesterday, I went to a party. It seemed like an ordinary night out, just another chance to have some fun and unwind. But as the evening unfolded, it turned into something more—an unexpected test of my own strength. I didn’t go in expecting it, but I walked away feeling proud of myself for reasons that are hard to explain without understanding the past I’ve been carrying. At some point during the night, his favorite song started playing, echoing through the room with memories I thought would weigh me down. A familiar pang hit me, one that I used to struggle to ignore. And when I went to grab a drink, the only option was his favorite—a drink I used to share with him so many times. I took a sip and braced myself, expecting the wave of emotions to follow, but they didn’t hit as hard as they used to. I didn’t crumble; I didn’t break. I just... was. I even found myself talking about our situation with friends—just a bit, just enough. It didn’t feel like a desperate attempt to get answers or ...