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Before you break your own heart thinking people aren’t there for you… Ask yourself, do you give them the opportunity to be there for you? Do you communicate and tell them when you’re having a hard time?  Do you ask for support when you need it? If they ask if you’re okay, do you tell them “no” or do you say “yes, I’m fine”? While the idea of someone being able to magically know our needs and meet them can be super appealing, it isn’t realistic. People aren’t mind readers and have their own stresses and feelings to deal with. But I think you’ll often find your loved ones are happy to be there for you if they know how to be. We often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders, feeling alone even when we’re surrounded by people who love us. It’s easy to slip into a mindset where we believe others have failed us because they didn’t show up in the ways we needed them to. We start to question the support of our friends and family, replaying moments in our heads where we felt abandone...

How Jeff Led Me to My Best Friend and More Friendships have a funny way of shaping our lives, leaving lasting impressions even when we drift apart. I want to take a moment to talk about a friend who played a pivotal role in bringing some amazing people into my life. His name is Jeff. He was the kind of friend you’d call one of your "homies"—cool, funny, and always down for a good time. Though we haven't spoken in years and have clearly grown apart, I’ll always be grateful for the role he played in my journey. Jeff was a connector, whether he knew it or not. Through him, I met people who would go on to become lifelong friends. Most importantly, Jeff was the reason I met my best friend, Brandie. Our bond grew out of that initial introduction, and I can't imagine life without her now. We’ve weathered the highs and lows of life together, and she’s become a sister to me in every way that matters. Jeff's impact didn't stop there—he also opened the door to other long...

 I grew up in a family where deception, cheating, and lies were almost second nature, even though I was always taught to be kind, truthful, and honest. It seemed like every side—my mom’s, my dad’s, and even their extended families—had their own share of blame. This constant cycle of broken trust became so normalized that I didn’t realize it wasn’t how things were supposed to be. At around 17, I had my first official relationship. We met through Clans, which was a popular way of connecting back then. I’m not sure if it's still a thing, but it was our little world. At the time, I was living in Baguio, but my mom decided to send me away to another school because I had too many friends, and I often skipped classes. I needed space, a fresh start. And that’s where he came in. We texted non-stop, day and night, always on the phone. I knew about his reputation, the red flags were there, but when you’re young, naïve, and caught up in that whirlwind of excitement, red flags don’t seem to mat...

  To My Younger Self, You dreamed big, even when the world was still so unfamiliar. You believed that growing up would somehow make everything fall into place—that your hopes and wishes would come true, and the heartbreaks would be a thing of the past. But life, in all its beautiful and painful honesty, had its own plans. High school felt like a maze, a tangle of cliques and moments that made you feel small. Algebra? Well, it became your personal puzzle—why x couldn’t just stay where it was supposed to was beyond you. College wasn’t the endless adventure of self-discovery you envisioned. It was filled with sleepless nights, instant noodles, and the kind of existential dread that no one prepares you for. Yet, through all of that, you found meaning. Each challenge, each failure, became a lesson that shaped you. Those exams you didn’t pass? They taught you more about resilience than any book ever could. The friendships that fell apart? They showed you the depth of your own strength. ...

A certain Tin in the universe said, "One thing you must realize, these feelings will pop up again at certain times in your life..." My reply to that would be my infamous "i can attest to that" line. They do. When everything seems to be okay, when you are on steady ground... they pop up all of a sudden, shaking you once again. The past three days counted as those "certain times when they will pop up again". Monday and Tuesday was smooth. For a long time, I've never felt so peaceful, so secured, so confident that good things will happen just as I wait. Wednesday, however, was the killer. I lost my phone and there goes the trigger. Having merely sleep and limited my connection to people.One of my friend probably have heard this from me a lot of times. While there are YM, Facebook, name it, as options - they're not just as accessible. Friday, I went home in the morning drunk decided to take a taxi. So, i hailed the bright of session road. . T...

Im staring  at the clock its quarter to 3 i’m tossin to bed cause i just cant sleep..cause your not here with me im reachin out for you i wish i can talk to you. Tryn to figure out whats goin on with me im used to have all the answers for everything oh boy ! tsk dunno what to do. Its so crazy a u simply amaze me. All the games i played and the 3pings im doin seems so lame to me im goin down with this new me ahggh but still i dunno if your tellin the truth or just Trippin'

OVER .. Today i just figured that i should end this stupidity before it totally kills me ! I have proven time and again that relationship whose foundation is a weak as infant and a relationship that sprung out of lies and nurtured with lies will never head a rightful path. Yet i continued playin with the game believing we can work things out. But what could you expect from a LONG DISTANCE LOVE AFFAIR? I should not have allowed us to reach this far, i should not have invested too MUCH, and i should not have played the game where we would all be losers hurting at the end. But what’s the use of my bla bla bla over things that can never be undone? So the mature thing to do now is to LET GO of it at once.. Will i still have the courage to lose grip ? today, im putting a quotation to this stupid sentence a PERIOD ....THANK YOU AND GOODBYE ! Uno.