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It all started when I was in the middle of a rocky relationship, that phase where you’re just not sure if things can be saved. And that’s when he walked in (Dran)—seemingly perfect, just the right blend of mystery and charm, always smelling great, with a sense of humor that kept me smiling. He made me feel special, like I was the only girl in his world. But little did I know, I was stepping right into a maze of red flags, neon-bright and flashing in the skies like fireworks. At first, I brushed them off, thinking I could "open his mind" or help him grow. But sometimes, no matter how much you try, people aren’t willing to change. Soon, his true nature surfaced, wrapped up in jealousy and possessiveness. At first, he said it was because he was "protective" and “not secure about the people around me.” He’d get upset if I wanted to go out with friends, made excuses for why I should stay home, and got suspicious of anything that wasn’t centered around him. His jealousy t...

I think about you constantly. I wonder what life would be like if you were still here. I imagine all of the things you'd say. I imagine all of the different adventures we would have gone on. I wonder who I would be if you were here. I wonder what we would all be like. I think about all of the different ways things would've turned out with you in our lives. I miss you all the time. I miss you so much that my heart hurts. My heart literally clenches tightly when I think of you, as though it's trying to hold itself together while my thoughts try and tear it apart. Time is supposed to heal all wounds but, it seems as though time just provided me with a band-aid that gets old and falls off more often than not. I know you'd hate it, but I still cry for you. I still sit up at night and wish that you were here. I still talk to you and ask you for advice. I can't help but want you here. Life has moved on but my heart and emotions haven't. I can't move on....

I’ve been through my share of ups and downs, but nothing quite compares to the turmoil of a toxic relationship. It’s the kind of experience that carves itself into your memory—anger, frustration, shouting, and the deafening noise of arguments where, halfway through, you forget what you’re even fighting for. It’s chaotic, a mess of emotions tangled in envy, jealousy, and gaslighting, with control at the center. There’s no real peace in it—only fleeting moments of calm between storms. When you’re caught in the whirlwind of a toxic relationship, it feels like you’re constantly tiptoeing around shattered glass, avoiding another explosion. You begin to question your reality, constantly walking on eggshells, never sure if the love you thought you had is real or just another manipulation. Gaslighting becomes a language, and you start to doubt your own truth as your world warps into something almost unrecognizable. I’ve felt the sting of envy pierce through conversations and the weight of jeal...

When u think of u'r past love,u may view it as a failure. However,when find a new love,u may view d' past as a teacher. In d' game of love,it does not really matter who won or who lost. What is important is u know when to hold on and when to let it go! you know you really love someone when you want him/her to be happy. Even if his happiness means that you are not part of it. Everything happens for d' best.If d' person you love does not love you back,do not beafraid to love someone else again,for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You will never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Love strives in hurting.If you do not get hurt,you do not learn how to love.Love does not hurt all d' time.However,d' hurting is still there to test you,to help you grow. Do not find love.let love find you.That is why it is called falling in love b-coz you do not force u'rself to fall.You cannot finish a book w/o closing it's chapters. If you want to...

The most destructive habit ............................  Worry The greatest Joy ............................  Giving The greatest loss ............................  Loss of self-respect The most satisfying work ............................  Helping others   The ugliest personality trait ............................  Selfishness The most endangered species ............................  Dedicated leaders . Our greatest natural resource ............................  Our youth   The greatest "shot in the arm" ............................  Encouragement   The greatest problem to overcome ............................  Fear   The most effective sleeping pill ............................  Peace of mind   The most crippling failure disease ............................  Excuses   The most powerful force in life ............................  Love   The most dangerous pariah ...............................

in your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with...and the one that got away. Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose. I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance. How often have you gone through it without even r...

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it ...