what goesz around cOmesz around!

Well, let me give you a little background about my experience.

I believe in karma, and right now, it’s really making its way into my life. There was a time when I was feeling incredibly down—failure and depression found me, but thankfully, that’s in the past now.

Not many people know what I’ve been through, except for my family and a few close friends. Even then, they don’t know the full details of the major catastrophe that happened in my life.

And of course, it all comes down to love life! No need to go into too much detail—it’s the classic story of cheating and betrayal. Sadly, that seems to be a typical occurrence in this world. I don’t know why some guys can’t resist it, but it happens all too often.

“Boys will be boys,” they say. For me, that doesn’t justify it, and it’s why I used to think all guys were the same. The phrase “You’re all the same!” stuck with me, because no matter the situation, cheating is still cheating.

Can’t men ever just stay loyal? I know not all guys are like that, but let’s be honest: how many men haven’t cheated, even once? Maybe 8% out of 100? I’m just speaking from experience, not only mine but from the experiences of other girls as well.

What really adds to the mess is the involvement of another woman—a third party. I refer to her as a “low-class b****.” Let’s just call her by the name she deserves, “K***al.” If she had any decency, why would she get involved with a guy who already has a girlfriend? She just proved to everyone how low she is.

And yes, you might be curious about what she looks like, but honestly, the name says it all. Her happiest moments were when I finally let go of him. That day was painful beyond words. We were all there—him, her, and me—and she acted like she had won.

The pain was indescribable. I felt like I had lost everything, and in that moment, I was so angry at both of them. But eventually, I let it go. They lasted for about a month.

As for my recovery, it wasn’t easy, but my family, cousins, and best friends really helped me get through it. They lifted me up when I was at my lowest. Special shout-out to my best friend, Tiks, who took me out to help me forget my problems. And to my cousins, who always made me laugh even when I didn’t feel like it. My mom, too, gave me endless support.

Thanks to them, I learned a lot.

As time passed, I heard news about the two of them—dating here and there. And just as they say, “What you don’t know won’t hurt you.” But soon, the tables turned, and he came back to me, asking for forgiveness and admitting all his mistakes. He realized he was wrong.

Honestly, though? The damage was already done.

As for the other woman, she was furious with him. She probably thought she was going to have a happy ending. But let’s be real—you can’t build happiness on someone else’s pain. Karma will catch up to you.

The guy and I talked, and he confessed everything, but by that time, I had already moved on. I had forgiven him, but that doesn’t mean I’ve forgotten what I went through.

As for the other woman, she continued to bad-mouth me and act bitter. According to my sources, she’s still the same. But I’ve moved on from all of that.

Now, I’m doing great, and I’ve left all the negativity behind. As for the guy, I forgave him, but I’ve learned my lesson.